"Airing My Dirty Laundry" - The "So Here's Your Standing O" Sequel

You didn't think I was going to leave it there did you my fellow blog readers?

I really gotta think of a cutesy name for you guys. Love B Scott has 'love muffins'....I'll think about it and get back to you...

So many of you read, commented and messaged me about the below [scroll down] LONG blog post from last night. I appreciate you all SO MUCH...I REALLY do.

Tonight me and my friend met up for dinner after work. We sat there over dinner both of us engrossed in the content on our Blackberry's. On her's she was reading the said below blog, and I was tweeting away with the gals on Twitter whilst she took over an hour to read it.

During it there were a lot of

Uh huh's

Amen's

and she even mouthed the word Mutha Fucker

At one point her eyes went O_O whilst she shook her head.

Poor thing, she read slow but blamed it on the small Blackberry font on her browser.

When she FINALLY came to the end she said it was EXCELLENT "but one thing. How are you gonna out the women, but not even mention his name?"

I told her tonight...it's only fair, and quite rightly so.

This will be brief as there are only so many 2:30am bedtimes I can take. I got a lot of business projects I want to be busy on, so can't stay long, but wanna show you guys as much love and be blog present as much as I can, and often.

Women usually do 'the internet check' when they meet a guy and quite rightly so. Or you can head over to Don't Date Him Girl and see if he's listed there. I thought about it, but that would make me anonymous and pretty much shady. I don't need DDHG, this is why I have MY blog for this kinda stuff.

I have nothing to hide.

I have nothing to be ashamed about.

He knows where my blog is at and he knows I go by LondonDiva.

He now knows I'm a bold bitch.

He never gave me the option to REALLY know what I was dealing with, hopefully some other poor cow will if she does the search and stumbles across my blog which does a good job with the Google rankings. This wasn't some down the road boyfriend, this was a long distance from London to McKinney, Texas [just outside of Dallas] relationship.

[name removed by LondonDiva], Tamekia Ford and JoAnne Burgos got outed in the blog below so it's only fair Willie Toombs or 'T' as he also goes by, should be too. A native to Little Rock, Arkansas. He's also lived in Memphis, Tennessee, and now in Texas, been there for nine years. He's 32 and will be 33, October 23rd. He loves Reggae music. Beres Hammond is a favourite of his, so much so he added 'Stay Longer' as the ringtone on his Blackberry when [name removed by LondonDiva] calls. He also had a photo folder on his computer of her and other women who he 'claims' are friends. Potential woman reading this if he tells you it's a friend/cousin run for the hills.

Hmmm what else...he's really into architecture. Chances are his phone will be on silent when you're around, and he may even usher you to bed before him so he can stay up calling, or go out to the garage to make calls to these women too. Watch his fingers as he may even delete 'her' from his call log 2 seats away from you on the couch, as if 2 seats are some far away galaxy and you suddenly became blind.

If you're on the phone with him and he gets a call waiting, he'll probably say it's his mother and that when she calls back to back it must be urgent, has to take the call and that he'll call you back. Chances are he won't. You won't get an apology for it either and won't hear from him for a day or so after that, as it's busy for him keeping track of who he's calling, dating, screwing and dreaming of sliding his hard dick inside of another woman and whoever else. 

If you ever out him on his cheating, he will do whatever he can to lay blame on you. Don't hang around trying to ask why why why? You won't get any answers. He will fuck up, claim he wants to make it work and probably will still be doing his trifling shit behind your back. He's very convincing so beware.

He's into history and anything 'black' and deep, he'll probably quote a lot of shit, this makes him appear to be real deep, down and head strong. He will look you DEAD in the eye if you ask him has he been faithful during your relationship and say will say yes without hesitation. If you can be bothered to date, get engaged or get married to this man I recommend the following book for you.

He's a past cheat. He's cheated and been cheated on...GOOD! He's said he's dated women that have been 'OK' with him cheating and that he's friends with some of his ex's. Well I'm not a woman that's OK with anyone cheating, and I certainly ain't a friendly ex, not to him anyway! If you want to be fine...go ahead!

He's what my friend described as a 'frenemy' he has a friend let's call her 'Ms Shy' who lives wayyyy outta town  is dating his cousin who isn't faithful to her, and Ms Shy basically has a friendship which she values with Willie, she even goes as far as to call him her BFF. Awww how sweet. I've met Ms Shy and I personally refused to get to know her because knowing 'she ain't the only one' I as a woman can't look her in the eye knowing what I know, so I'd rather not thanks. Willie knows about MOST of the women dude has been creeping with. I understand where his loyalty lies with fam and all that, but just another example of him not even being a good friend. 

You all wanna laugh, hang out and joke with your BFF, but on the low aren't checking your boy and assisting this woman in wasting her time when she could be dealing with someone who wants her and only her? Hmph I wonder would she still be calling him a BFF knowing both of em don't have her best interests at heart either?

That reminds me gotta book my flight for my trip to Shy Chi-Town in a couple weeks....

...sorry y'all got sidetracked for a second.

I may expect my phone to ring, an e-mail to drop in my in-box, an anonymous comment left here, a Facebook message, aliases joining Twitter...whatever...trust me I'm ready for it if and when it happens. 

Whoever wants to get mad, can get mad...this is the nicest of things out of many that other crazy woman would want to do.

If you weren't such a man whore Willie, either wanting to get it or actually getting it, and a piece of shit of a scheming, low life, trifling, immature, jumped up excuse of a man, maybe shit wouldn't come back to haunt you in black n white with jpeg pics n gifs...I expect all of the names for me to be called out under the sun, shoot...you may even pray for me. You may read this in utter shock, or laugh and find this utterly amusing...I'mma be a bolder bitch than you thought I was and e-mail these directly to you. But don't get it twisted, I'm not bitter, it's closure on the closure and with regard to everything surrounding your pitiful existence...

DO.NOT.CARE

GAME OVER PLAYA